“It’s bad to not do anything for 8 hours but it is sad to not be able to do anything for 8 hours.”
Someone once told me, “Hunger hurts but starving is worse”. So I try everyday to “feed my mind” with some type of activity. I do this because I realize a little activity is better than no activity.
Losing my ability to reflect and imagine is my biggest fear, so keeping my mind active is a top priority for me.
One of my faults is that I probably spend too much time inside the house. I’m also too depended on my husband to find me things to do. So to counteract this, I am always searching for new intellectual pursuits. Sometimes it’s substantial, like writing a 500-word post or speaking at an event. But most times it’s small things like sitting outside watching people walk by. With me, fatigue plays a huge factor so for that particular day; people watching may be all I’m able to do.
I use to be such an active person, so I had to convince myself that physical exercise isn’t the only way to obtain mental simulation. At one point in my life, I would see people sitting around and think they were lazy. Now I know, just because someone appears to be doing nothing doesn’t mean they are actually doing nothing. For me, I use that time to reflect and clear my mind, which lets me sort out future moves. I’m able to find the right paths and create new opportunities for potential endeavors. I call it, actively doing nothing.
So if you ever find yourself being bored or to tired for physical activity, take my advice and do nothing. Because sometimes doing nothing can bring you more to do.
Thanks for pointing this out. Fatigue is one of the most debilitating things for me. Someone also mentioned reading becoming tiring. I do get worried because almost anything using my eyes becomes tiring now…:( But that’s the way it is! I do nothing quite a bit – and then I realize, I just sort of get things done a little at a time sometimes – just at a snail pace. Beware! People who knew you as a dynamo may still hold you to that standard!! I have discovered who my friends are.
May you be pain free this week, everyone, especially you, dear Nicole. Thank you.
thank you, just about the time I didn’t want to keep updated on all of these things, I read this blog ;realize that its very relative. :-/.
Thank you for keeping my feet on The ground.
Cindy, No problem.
Nicole,
I love the hat and your blog is inspirational . It is a blessing to read !
Hi Nicole,
I’ve been there done that and have the T-shirt! The strange thing now is that the thought of reading is a challenge for me because it used to lead to fatigue for me and it does make me sleepy. Maybe it’s just old age setting in, lol I’m a young 55! What I’ve discovered is that when I’m feeling like I don’t want to be active, or exercise, that is the most important time to do exactly that. So I run, or end up at the local YMCA doing stretching or riding a stationary bike, which I’ve yet to crash! Thank you for your post and the reminder to keep active, wether in mind or body, realizing both are extremely important yet practically speaking, not giving up one for lack of the other.
Your Friend,
Tim
MSRunnerDude
Tim, I know who you are!!!!
Haha I hope you know who I am and I just wanted to let you know that I am registered to run the New Orleans Rock n roll 1/2 marathon on January 25 with another person who has MS so hopefully we can find some time to meet.
Your Friend,
Tim
#Msrunnerdude
I enjoy seeing your post, I am eagerly awaiting the next topic you wish to elaborate more on from your perspective. You get it!! It’s like a nice cozy place to visit when we read along with you-we take us to unimaginable places of where MS sometimes takes no other..Keep pen to paper!!
There is a cool children’s book, Let’s Do Nothing, about two boys trying and failing to do nothing all afternoon.
When i was in high school, I road the DC metro home from school everyday, and it took more than an hour. To pass the time, I used to look around and try to imagine their story. Over time, I started trying to tell the story focusing on some thing small about their expression or an article of their clothing. As the years passed, I have begun to wonder if my real life would be more or less interesting than the stories somebody might make up about me. Story telling has been a hobby ever since.
Thanks for sharing Nicole. It helps me feel connectedand inspired by new ideas. 🙂
Thanks for putting these into words. Fatigue is such a evil presence to have to endure. Like you stated, I used to think those that sat around were wasting time too. Now I know they were merely reloading and recharging.
Mary Alice , it sounds like the new RandR!
Thank you for this! I was a very active person before, and I just don’t have that ability anymore. I often feel “lazy” but this just reminded me that even on those days where I’m not physically doing much, mentally I am still doing something! Thanks again!
🙂 keep smiling and writing enjoying your blog
Antoinette, I am smiling. good job!
THANK YOU !! I USUALLY TRY TO READ YOUR STORY , BUT TODAY OR SHOULD I SAY TONIGHT ,ITS 2:10 AM ..I WANTED TO THANK YOU…
LMAO I LOST MY TRAIN OF THOUGHT OF WHAT I WANTED TO SAY. ~GIGGLE~
ANYWAY JUST THANK YOU FOR MAKING MANY OF US FEEL BETTER…MY OPINION ONLY ! 🙂
Luanne, thanks for reading. It means a lot.